** Spend time with me, enjoy me

** Tell me what you like about me

** Help me find the words to tell you how I feel

** Help me feel big and proud, honour my feelings

** Tell me clearly what you want from me

** Be firm. Say No. I depend on you to set limits for me

** Let me know you still love me when you don't like what I do

** Keep me safe when you get mad at me

** Let me learn by trying things

** Comfort me when trying makes me cross

** Say sorry when you are wrong

** Show me it really is okay to make mistakes

** Coach me. I learn how to act by copying you

** It's my job to be the kids

** I need you to be the grown up.